I do remember you, and I’m sincerely glad that you got out of the relationship. I don’t have words to tell you how much this message touched me. You can do it, anon, you can get through this. <3 If you ever get to that place again, my inbox is open.
Never take advice from someone who spells “you” as “yu”. Sorry I am all up in your business tonight, lol.
But it wasn’t just that because the way she was saying “your follower count isn’t important and look at me aren’t i so awesome because I never check mine” was so pretentious. Like, ok chick, no shit your follower count doesn’t define you. BUT, this is an online community, right? Your followers are like your little world within this community. Even tho my particular followers don’t interact much beyond the normal favoriting and reblogging, I still love that they’re there, and I love getting that little email from tumblr (you guys the level of my disappointment in those tumblr spams about what went on is week like I ever effing left, knows no bounds) saying that I have a new one (hi to the four-odd of you that joined me this past week! /wave), and I get sad when they leave. Like noooooooo come back let me love you! Lol. If you are just on tumblr to read stuff then, sure, it’s unimportant. But if you actually want to participate, then it’s nice seeing the number get bigger. Like you’re throwing a party and more people are showing up, YAY PARTY! It’s not shallow to be interested when the number changes. I dunno, something about the whole thing rubbed me the wrong way.